Mera naam Rati hai. Main ek chhote se gaon se aayi hoon, jahan English sirf books tak simit thi. Shehar mere liye ek nayi duniya jaisa tha, jahaan sab kuch tez, modern aur thoda scary bhi tha. Maine kabhi socha bhi nahi tha ki main English seekhne ki koshish karungi, ya apni journey likhne ki himmat karungi. Par jab life mein naye log mile, naye situations aayi, tab laga ki apni story likhna chahiye — taki koi aur Student jo Rati jaise feel karti ho, uske liye yeh ek hope ban sake. Yeh book meri pehli koshish hai — ek diary, ek journey, ek story
Kya apki koi superpower hai? Sabko lagta hai super power sirf super heroes ki hoti hai jaise Spider-Man, Thor, Superman, jo hum TV par dekhte hain. Achha lagta hai ki hum bhi Harry Potter ke school jaate aur magic se life easy bana lete. Jaise har ek ladki chahti hai unka broom unke freedom ka tool banne na ki sweeping ka.
Par pata hai, reading, writing, walking, running, listening, speaking, storytelling, writing songs, writing code, learning how to learn - ye real superpowers hain jo humein healthy aur wealthy banate hain. Paise kamana seekhna bhi ek superpower hai. Tumhare paas jo bhi hai, usi se paise kamana seekh sakte ho.
Bahut log achhe se padh likh lete hain, lekin unhone kabhi reading aur writing ko daily habit nahi banaya. Phir wahi log zindagi ki problems ka solution dhoondhne ke bajaye usi zindagi ki complain karte rehte hain.Ek powerful rule hai: "Think on paper." Matlab, sochne ka best tarika hai likhna. Aur sirf 2% log hi is habit ko follow karte hain.Aksar log bolte hain ki "mere paas ache dost nahi hain", "koi hangout karne ki jagah nahi", aur din bhar reels dekhte rehte hain. Par asli superpower hoti hai reading mein. Millionaire, Billionaire se tum unke books padh kar unke dost ban sakte ho. Woh tumhare saath physically nahi mil sakte, isliye unhone apni soch kitaabon mein likhi hai — sirf tumhare liye.
Ek acha sa quote hai: "Ap un 5 logon ke average ban jate ho jin ke saath ap rehte ho." Tum is book se tum un 5 logon ko choose kar sakte ho chahe jo is duniya mein ho ya na ho."Reading aur writing hume apni soul ki awaaz sunna sikhata hai — jo ki khud ko samajhne ka sabse powerful tool hai."
Isiliye main yeh book likh rahi hoon — jismein main apni learning journey ke baare mein baat kar rahi hoon. Shayad mere superpower writing ho jayein aur main bhi, joke, story, poem, song, movies, book se paise kama lu.
Let’s start my journey : Shehar Mein Pehli Baar
Abhi exam just khatam hue the aur Bhaiya mujhe city le aaya. Yahaan aate hi samajh aaya ki yeh jagah mere liye bilkul perfect nahi hai. Pehle toh yeh buildings… itni badi! 25-30 floors ki height? Seriously? Mere gaon mein toh 2-floor wali building bhi bade logon ki property lagti thi!
Aur sabse badi dikkat— height ! Mujhe upar se neeche dekhne ka solid darr hai. Nahane ke baad balcony? No chance. Baal geele chalega, but balcony pe jaana impossible.
Shaam ko Bhaiya bola, “Chal, society ghoom ke aate hain.” Yeh society bhi kisi mini city se kam nahi hai—library, swimming pool, basketball court, badminton court, temple—sab ek hi boundary ke andar.
City life ekdum alag hai. Gaon ki zindagi slow motion mein chalti hai aur shehar? Ekdam fast-forward movie ki tarah. Phir Bhaiya ekdum serious hoke bola, “Yaha sare bache kuch na kuch seekh rahe hain, vacation mein bhi koi new language, games, coding, AI sikhte hain. Kyu na tu bhi coding try kare?”
Kya! Coding? Maine toh computer chalana bhi properly nahi seekha hai. Bhaiya bola, “Mera friend hai, help kar dega. Chal, mila deta hoon.” Aur fir kya, coding class bhi shuru ho gayi.Jab coding class ke liye ja rahi thi, tab pehli baar lift use ki. Darwaza khola, andar gayi, lekin darr ke maare koi button press nahi kiya. Pata nahi kaise, lift seedha 24th se 30th floor tak chali gayi. Wahan ek ladka andar aaya—mai already dari hui thi, shayad usne meri halat samajh li. Phir, 14th floor tak aate-aate woh lift mein jump karne laga! Yeh shehar ke log bhi kamaal ke hain. Mujhe dara kar mazza le raha tha.
Jab class pohonchi toh dekha, kafe bache hai or class may song play ho rha hai. Sab stylish kapdon mein, apne-apne friends ke saath… haste, discussion karte hue. Aur mai? Ek alien jaisa feel ho raha tha. Fir, ek corner pakad kar baith gayi. Tabhi ek familiar chehra dikha— woh lift waala ladka… uska naam Vishy hai.
Jab mai mandir gayi, toh wahan koi nahi tha. Maine apni aankhein band kari aur waise hi Bhagwan se baat karne lagi jaise apne village mein karti hoon—bas simple bolti hoon ki kya problems chal rahi hain. Mujhe toh koi idea nahi tha ki koi sun bhi lega.
Jab maine eyes open ki, toh ek aunty jo shayad 60+ hongi, mere samne khadi thi. Lagta hai unhone meri baat sun li thi. Unhone mujhe prasad diya aur bola ki vo bhi English teacher hain, aur meri help kar sakti hain. Maine apne bhaiya ka naam bataya ki mai unki sister hoon. Bola bhiya ko call karne ko.
Jab maine bhaiya ko bataya, toh vo hasne laga, “Wow, Rati, tum ab networking kar rahi ho! Vo aunty 20+ years se English padha rahi hain. She was a bank manager, jo kuch saal pehle retire hui thi. Unke dono bachhe USA mein hain.”
Wah bhagwan itne jaldi mere bat sun li aap ne. .Aur bas, ab meri English classes bhi start!
First Day
Ma’am ka ghar ek vila jaisa tha, kafi bada. Vaha ki smell bhi kafi alag si thi. Waise mere liye toh sab naya tha, par fir bhi koi kaise itne bade ghar mein akele rehta hoga, ye soch rahi thi main. Tabhi ma’am aayi aur puchha tumhein English kaise hai rati?
Kaisi hai matlab mujhe toh kuch pata ho toh batao na, achi hai ya buri? Mujhe toh bas abhi A, B, C... aur kuch words hi aate hain. Maine bola ma’am, main Hindi medium se hoon. Mujhe zyada kuch nahi aata.
Ma’am ohh tabhi tum itni zyada pareshan thi kal temple mein. Achha tumhein alphabet toh aate hain na? Alphabet matlab ABCD... Achha batao kitne alphabets hote hain English mein? Fir ma’am pani lane chale gayi. Aur maine jaldi se counting start ki, 26 small, 26 capital letter. Kya ab cursive bhi add karu 26 uske?
Ma’am k aate hain Maine bola 26 small ke letter. Ma’am ne bola ha, bas 26 hi hote hain small capital sabka sound pronunciation same hai par pata English kafi hard hai jab bhi tum usse read karne jao kyunki ismein kafi sound aise hain jo normally hum nahi sochte. pr School ka maine focus cursive likhne may hota hai kyu? Yes ma'amEnglish mein sirf 26 alphabets hote hain, par jab aap isko bolte ho to 44 sounds hoti hain! Ye alag-alag tarike se banti hain—kuch vowels hoti hain, kuch consonants, aur kuch milke new sounds create karti hain.Jaise example ke liye:
‘C’ ka sound kabhi ‘S’ jaisa hota hai (Jaise "city"), kabhi ‘K’ jaisa hota hai (Jaise "cat").
‘Th’ ka bhi alag pronunciation hota hai—"thin" aur "that" dono mein "Th" hai, par sound different hai!Jab aap aise English seekhne ki koshish karte ho, to ye pronunciation aur sounds samajhna thoda tough ho sakta hai. Bahut log ek hi level pe stuck ho jate hain, kai saal bhar tak struggle karte hain aur sochte hain ki ye humse nhi ho payega. Lekin real challenge pronunciation ko master karte hue sath may padhadi karna grammar ya vocabulary! Ko. This is a key learn english
Tum na rati Youtube international phonetic alphabet 44 sounds search karke koch din practice karna . speaking k way pr dhyan doge aur unko samjhne ki koshish karoge, to English seekhna kaafi easy ho jayega. Jab sahi tarike se words bolne aur samajhne aayenge, to ek level se dusre level tak smoothly ja sakoge.
Koch aise dekhne ko milega tumhe.- /θ/ (TH in think)
- /ð/ (TH in this)
- /ʃ/ (SH in ship)
- /tʃ/ (CH in chip)
- /dʒ/ (J in jam)
- /ŋ/ (NG in sing)
Ye kya symbols hai ye sb konsi english k alphabet hai chalo youtube pr he dekhti hu. Pr youtube mujhe toh lag ma’am yaha sb padhe vali hai jaisa normally hota hai koi teacher jo offline k baad youtube suggest karta hai. Maine ma’am se bola pr youtube toh total time waste lagta hai itne see itna sb hai usnay padhi karna muskill hai. Oh Rati yahi toh challenge hai aaj kal k bacho k liye kaise aone liye aap technology ko use karte ho yaha pata hai 90% log ismay fail bhi hone vale hai, Fir ma’am app kyu bol rhe ho usko use karne ko?Fir ma’am ne mujhe ye samjhya. .4S Learning Process: Goal Tak Pahuchne Ka Raasta1. State (Aapka Mindset aur Energy Level)Sabse pehle, apna State check karo.
Aap thake ho? Excited ho? Udaas ho?
Jo bhi karna hai life mein — coding seekhni ho, fit body chahiye ho, ya apna business build karna ho — sabse pehle aapko apna emotional aur physical state sahi karna padega. Kyuki emotions are call to action. Thoda walk kar lo. Ya koi bhi activity kyuki motion change emotion. 5-minute meditation karo.
Apna energy level high rakho, kyunki low state = low performance.
2. Story (Apne Dimaag Ki Kahaani)Har kisi ke dimaag mein ek kahaani chal rahi hoti hai:"Main toh average hoon..."
"Mere paas time nahi hai..."
"Yaar, coding mere bas ka nahi..."Ye sab kahaniyaan aapko rok rahi hain.
Ab aapko apni kahaani badalni padegi."Main learner hoon."
"Mujhe time banana aata hai."
"Main har din better ho raha hoon." Jaisi story, waisa action.
Apni kahaani ko hero wali banao, victim wali nahi.
3. Strategy (Plan of Action)Ab jab state aur story sahi ho gayi, toh ab aata hai strategy.
Yani exact steps: Kya padhna hai?
Kab padhna hai?Fix time sabse best rehta hai. Jaise roj 5:00 am 1 hour k liye.
Kaise kab karna hai? Strategy bina goal sirf ek sapna hota hai.
Plan banao, pen se likho, aur wall pe chipka do.
4. Struggle (Jung Toh Hogi!)Ab last aur most important S – Struggle.
Har success ke peeche struggle hoti hai — lekin wahi toh maza hai!Agar aapko lagta hai ki struggle galat hai, toh mindset change karo.
Struggle = signal hai ki aap grow kar rahe ho.Agar aap State sahi rakhoge, Story strong banao, Strategy follow karo, aur Struggle se darte nahi ho — toh koi goal impossible nahi.“4S” yaad rakhna…
State. Story. Strategy. Struggle.
Aur likh do diary mein —"Main haarne ke liye nahi, seekhne ke liye bana hoon!" Class k baad;Jab mai class se flat jaa rahi thi to tabhi ball mere paas ae. maine catch kar liya.Mere reflexes Spider-Man jaise ho gaye .Kuch bachai mujhe dekh kar shock ho gayai aur clap karne lage. Manai ball return ki aur vo jakai Vishy ko lagi.Mera aim waise to itna theek nahi tha par pata nahi itna confidence kaise aaya aur maine lift ka badla le liya. Kya ab mujhe cricket khelnai ki bhi strategy shuru kar deni chahiye?
